Game crashes during multiplayer

PC STEAM @ definitive edition

but I love to play PVE with friends, but my game randomly freezes and gets a crash report (no number)
So I am kicked out of the game… This happend to me more then once, I uninstalled and reinstalled the game, still get the error. It usually happend 30 min into the game

It takes a 10s freeze and then it sends me to the desktop saying

AOE has stopped working (so no additional information)

Anyone knows how long it takes before a respond.
I want to play with friends but I fear this happens again