Game crashes unable to play with steam players as xbox live

Since the lasest update my game is chrashing when try to accept an invitation, go to the clan tab and whenever i click to try and invite someone else, also queue timers for ranked were pretty high. I have aoe 2 de from microsoft. the problem doesnt seem to occur on steam. I have a feeling the microsoft version is broken after the update and crossplay isnt working.

I have played some ranked games but i can’t play with friend also the the lobby browser has very few games in it