# Griefing in team games

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**Category:** II - Discussion\
**Created:** [May 26, 2026, 11:09pm UTC](https://forums.ageofempires.com/t/griefing-in-team-games/286405 "2026-05-26T23:09:16Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 8\
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**Author:** ![Guavit0](https://forums.ageofempires.com/user_avatar/forums.ageofempires.com/guavit0/32/209789_2.png) [@Guavit0](https://forums.ageofempires.com/u/Guavit0)\
**Post date:** [May 26, 2026, 11:09pm UTC](https://forums.ageofempires.com/t/griefing-in-team-games/286405/1 "2026-05-26T23:09:16Z")

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Solo queued into a 4v4 Amazon tunnel game.

At some point while I was focused on the giant battle in the middle one of my teammates use a onager or something to break my monastery and steal my relics. They never asked for them or said anything all game.

I just resigned after I realized what happened as I didn’t want to play with someone who would do that.

And I know no enemy’s did it nobody ever broke the front line. This happen to anyone else? It’s the first time I’ve experienced griefing like this. I reported them just wanted peoples thoughts on the matter.

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**Author:** ![yuksely1992](https://forums.ageofempires.com/user_avatar/forums.ageofempires.com/yuksely1992/32/206966_2.png) [@yuksely1992](https://forums.ageofempires.com/u/yuksely1992)\
**Post date:** [May 26, 2026, 11:42pm UTC](https://forums.ageofempires.com/t/griefing-in-team-games/286405/2 "2026-05-26T23:42:20Z")

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Did you play with strangers?

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**Author:** ![Guavit0](https://forums.ageofempires.com/user_avatar/forums.ageofempires.com/guavit0/32/209789_2.png) [@Guavit0](https://forums.ageofempires.com/u/Guavit0)\
**Post date:** [May 27, 2026, 12:40am UTC](https://forums.ageofempires.com/t/griefing-in-team-games/286405/3 "2026-05-27T00:40:13Z")

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Yes, generally the fill experience has been pretty good for me. I guess there’s always a few bad apples

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**Author:** ![KnightPandaMage](https://forums.ageofempires.com/user_avatar/forums.ageofempires.com/knightpandamage/32/29366_2.png) [@KnightPandaMage](https://forums.ageofempires.com/u/KnightPandaMage)\
**Post date:** [May 27, 2026, 10:18am UTC](https://forums.ageofempires.com/t/griefing-in-team-games/286405/4 "2026-05-27T10:18:06Z")

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Don’t play closed maps. On open maps noone has time to do such things, unless your team has already won. 😃  
… bad apple… nothing else to say.

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**Author:** ![Guavit0](https://forums.ageofempires.com/user_avatar/forums.ageofempires.com/guavit0/32/209789_2.png) [@Guavit0](https://forums.ageofempires.com/u/Guavit0)\
**Post date:** [May 27, 2026, 1:46pm UTC](https://forums.ageofempires.com/t/griefing-in-team-games/286405/5 "2026-05-27T13:46:17Z")

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I wish I could but I only get one ban, a keep Black Forest perma banned but there’s multiple other closed maps this rotation.

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**Author:** ![KnightPandaMage](https://forums.ageofempires.com/user_avatar/forums.ageofempires.com/knightpandamage/32/29366_2.png) [@KnightPandaMage](https://forums.ageofempires.com/u/KnightPandaMage)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2026, 8:47am UTC](https://forums.ageofempires.com/t/griefing-in-team-games/286405/6 "2026-05-28T08:47:55Z")

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Ufh… i quickly forget as i play with friends premade mostly than we get 4 bans.

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**Author:** ![Guavit0](https://forums.ageofempires.com/user_avatar/forums.ageofempires.com/guavit0/32/209789_2.png) [@Guavit0](https://forums.ageofempires.com/u/Guavit0)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2026, 1:56am UTC](https://forums.ageofempires.com/t/griefing-in-team-games/286405/7 "2026-05-29T01:56:11Z")

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Yeah, I would if I knew people that played but know one I know has an interest in strategy games and I’m not a fan of teaming up with people I don’t know for more than 1 match. I’ve never had such a bad experience before so I’m hoping it’s just a 1 time thing and this doesn’t happen again.

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**Author:** ![KnightPandaMage](https://forums.ageofempires.com/user_avatar/forums.ageofempires.com/knightpandamage/32/29366_2.png) [@KnightPandaMage](https://forums.ageofempires.com/u/KnightPandaMage)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2026, 9:40am UTC](https://forums.ageofempires.com/t/griefing-in-team-games/286405/8 "2026-05-29T09:40:38Z")

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> [@Guavit0](#):
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> I’m hoping it’s just a 1 time thing and this doesn’t happen again.

It might happen again, but i doubt it will be common. you still can report such player probably.
