Lag in game

In the last update i got some many issues. I usually play 1v1, the game started and i dont have problems on my connection. i have tested on speedtest i got this, 32 ping, 20.68 upload, 1.86 download . my ping on game is this like 90but when i play some team games this happens I can play different games without lag but i love AOE 2 DE, a lot of people on fb forums have the same issues, can you help with servers or something like that?