You know you can rebind the attack move key right? At least, I’m pretty sure you can.
Yeah, it is just annoying that the grid no longer matches, and in the case of AoE2 that row is used for unit stances, so it either needs totally rearranged or one stance is out of place on another line.
Unfortunately so far none of these games have taken the step of making the UI rearrange to match custom hotkeys, that would be my dream for AoE4.
It’s even more confusing because iirc in HD Edition, Attack move was bound to TAB by default.