How do I get my guys to STOP and STAY STOPPED?

I tell my man-at-arms, spearmen, etc to ‘S’ stop and they do.

For about a second. Then they’re charging off to get killed again.

I don’t see any commands on the card to get them to not run after enemies.

???

Isn’t there a stand ground command or something

I don’t see it when I have multiple unit types together in one group.

I’ll look at a dedicated group.