Hi there!
https://www.aoe2insights.com/analysis/4e58f103727aa4ba473ea1e6be2525d5a51f21e2/#overview
Here is the replay of my game, sadly was disconnected. It’s enough to see the Overview for you, to see what’s going on( grey and later orange buildings on the map). From my line of sight, it’s poor game design of the threaty mechanic from the devs, building ability shouldn’t be interrupted by players from the different team! By the way, share your thoughts on that.
P.S. only at the Overview i noticed the chat 